& I'm Okay With That

Have you ever done something you didn't want to do? I have. I have done way too many things I didn't want to do or agreed to things I didn't care for - for way too long. I was your typical pushover guilt trip girl. I was living my life on guilt. Examples? Ever invite someone to not hurt their feelings or so they didn't talk about you? Ever agree to do someone a favor when you know damn well you don't have the time to do extra shit? Ever agree to do more than you can handle? Ever sacrifice your happiness for someone else's? I've done it all! From inviting people I don't really care for to saying "yes" to favors. Well - no more. I no longer do ANYTHING I don't chose to do. & I'm okay with that.


I'm okay with not inviting you if I don't feel like entertaining our relationship. I'm okay with not having any relationship with you if I don't think it's genuine or beneficial. I'm okay with skipping events if I'm too busy with the girls or life. I'm also okay with making it a point to go to certain events to finally socialize with a mature human being vs my 4 walls and kids. I'm okay with doing what ever the fuck I want to do and when I want to do it. If I wake up tomorrow and feel like deep cleaning I will do so, but if I feel like watching tv all day - that is what I'll do - & I'm okay with that. I want us all to do a little exercise and feeeeeel it! Say that shit with your chest!


I don't feel like cleaning today - & I'm okay with that

I don't feel like getting out my pjs - & I'm okay with that

I don't feel like I want to be a mom today - & I'm okay with that

I don't feel like dealing with my husband today - & I'm okay with that

I don't feel like texting you today - & I'm okay with that

I don't feel like entertaining anyone today - & I'm okay with that

I don't feel like working out today - & I'm okay with that

I don't feel like saying yes - & I'm okay with that


I want to go out - & I'm okay with that

I want to do nothing today - & I'm okay with that

I want to organize my house from top to bottom - & I'm okay what that

I want to be the most extra girl in the world - & I'm okay with that

I want to be a bomb ass mom - & I'm okay with that

I want to buy what ever I like - & I'm okay with that

I want to wear what ever I feel like wearing - & I'm okay with that

I want to cry all day - & I'm okay with that

I want to do what ever the fuck I feel like doing today - & I'm okay with that


I'm not inviting you - & I'm okay with that

I'm not going to your event - & I'm okay with that

I'm not going to fake our relationship - & I'm okay with that

I'm not going to do anything I don't want to do - & I'm okay with that


Love is freedom. We need to learn that we have the freedom to do what ever we truly want to do and not do things we don't want to. Stop feeling guilty, stop feeling pressured, stop feeling embarrassed. There is days I want to be my most productive self - there is days I want to do nothing at all. & I'm okay with that. I no longer carry any relationship that I don't need/want. I put energy into my 1-3 close friends and my immediate family. & girlllll.. I am a - okay - with that! I feel so much lighter. No more drama, no more being drained/exhausted/guilty. At the end of the day - I am true to my feelings and wants. I make sure I am happy and not making others happy while I stretch myself thin. I speak my mind, I make time for myself, I make time for my dreams, I say NO without an explanation, I do what ever the fuck I want to do. & I'm okay with that.


Comment something you will/won't do anymore because you simply don't give a fuck anymore - & you're okay with that.

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